We won’t be able to shine on our own light when we depend on other for power i.e. environment, people etc. We will be like a moon that shines due to influence of sun. Moon waxes and wanes as it depends on the burrowed light of sun. Whereas, sun is powerful due to its independent nature. Similarly, the key to happiness of the person who is dependent on people, place and circumstances is not with them. Behavior of other people affects their mood and emotions so that they could not be by themselves. As, we go within ourselves accepting all those thought, emotions, feeling, mood, perception and moment we embrace them; we are powerful. And our tendency to seek validation will slowly fade. We will be more concerned with our internal state which have many subtle factors that influence us. Our sadness, grief, misery all those bad memories are indeed a power which needs to be transformed. If we reject them we lose them but if we be friend them it will work for us. When we accept ourselves with all those things we have perceived as unacceptable we become whole. As, we began to accept it we tend to be like alchemy who transforms any metal into gold. In other words, we can transform problems into opportunities.