It is the precious moments to be pregnant in the life of a married woman. It is believed to be getting the blessing of god to be the mother for a woman. Not only that, it is the process of continuing the generations as well as the history of mankind. Being pregnant is the good news not only to the married couple but also to the whole family and the nearest relatives. After listening to the news, all the family members become excited to welcome the newly born baby to this beautiful world as their family successors.
Generally, after marriages many people expect to have baby from the newly married couple. In the other word, marriage is meant to be for the continuation of generations. At first elderly people seem hurried to marry their grandson and grand daughter as it is their last wish remaining to be fulfilled before they die. But no sooner of the marriage, they start to urge the newly married couple to bear the grandson and grand daughter as they want to see the face of their great grandson and granddaughter as they are dyeing soon. However, it is the couple who can take decision about it. Despite of family’s expectation and pressure, the couples are responsible to take the decision when and how many children to bear, what is the appropriate birth interval and so on. In one hand, some couple wants to have gap o bear the first child after their marriage. To have a child is not a joke. Couple should be physically and mentally prepared and matured. Unexpected and unwanted child bearing gives burden, pressure and just an unpleasant experience of dis satisfaction, guilt and sorrow to the couple as they are not mentally prepared to be parents and they have put their career in the first priority. On the other hand, some couples want to conceive the baby immediately after their marriage. Besides this, couples may have various reasons.:
- Frequently having the story of not having child years after the marriage too.
- Excited to be parents soon.
- Life management tools/time management.
- Growing age of grandparents, etc.
However, As I have already mention couples are free and responsible to have such decisions. As it is their sole duty to nourish and take care of their babies. This responsibility begins before the conception and never ends in our like country.
Now, leaving all the issues behind, I want to go for a planned, expected and most wanted pregnancy. There remains no limit of happiness after the couple get the positive sign of pregnancy in their first check up as they are well prepared physically and mentally. It becomes a pleasant moment for them. They stand to dream about their baby to be healthy, happy and powerful souls. They try their best to make comfortable environment in mother’s womb as chid is growing slowly. Although some mothers have to go through very difficult situations throughout their pregnancy like:
- Morning sickness, vomiting at the time of delivery.
- Mood swings
- Premature birth
- Cease rial delivery, hard time at delivery
- In some case, abortion
All they are ready to be the mother in any case. To sum up, being a mother is the most powerful and unique experience a woman feels throughout her life. That’s why no mother despite knowing all the hard times gives suggestion to her daughter not to bear the child. Lets celebrate the moments and be prepared to produce healthy, patriotic and liable citizen of the nation.